Dating Fail #82

I have to say… the one I have today is a new one.  Remember the dude from Dating Fail #80?  If you don’t go refresh yourself, I’ll wait.

(For those that don’t want to wait, the guy sent me a copy-paste mass message, I asked why he thought I was cool, he said he had a good idea of people by looking at them to tell him more about myself, asked about stuff that is clearly listed on my profile, questioned him, and he said he had enough stress and didn’t have time for this).

Back?  Alright.  So he originally messaged me on OkCupid.  Now being on both OkCupid and PlentyofFish you see some crossover of people, though not as much as you’d think.  However, I have never had someone message me on BOTH sites.  So a few weeks after the original series of messages, I received this message on PlentyofFish:

“Hey, what’s up? I’m not the best at this but you seem like a cool person I’d like to get to know and hang out sometime. I hope to hear back from you?”

That sounded familiar, so I looked at the profile and it was the SAME guy with the exact same pictures.  To refresh your memory, this is the message he sent me on OkCupid:

“Hey, what’s up? I’m not the best at this but you seem like a cool person I’d like to get to know and hang out sometime. I hope to hear back from you?”

Word for word, space for space the EXACT. SAME. MESSAGE.  Funny, my suspcion of a copy-paste message are true.  So I thought I would point out his mistake in messaging me.

Me:  You messaged me this same message on another dating site. It ended with you saying you didn’t have time for me because I asked you questions about why you thought I seemed like a cool person.

Him:  That’s not how it went at all

Me:  Different perspectives. Why would you send me the exact same message on here though? Clearly it did not go well the first time.

Him:  Do you want to start over

Ignored my questions, again and then has the BALLS to ask if I want to try it again.   Unfortunately I do not have more after that.  I knew it was going south quickly and PlentyofFish eats your messages.  What I did not expect was for him to block me this time, which means all the messages disappeared.

What I am trying to figure out is if he is just that dumb that he goes through every woman on both sites and sends that message or if he thought I was dumb enough I wouldn’t remember.  I understand the mass message approach does work in the long run, but really, what woman responds to these messages?  Do people really not see through the genericness of the messages? The constant attempts to reroute the conversation to her without talking about him? It all screams suspicious and fishy to me.

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